When your spouse asks you to do something, don’t just say “yes”. Add some real enthusiasm for being able to do or give what your spouse asks for. “Sure, I’d love to do that for you.” This can help your spouse feel noticed and cared for.
Words to Use: “Sure. I’d love to do that for you.” Read More »
Each one in the couple may different techniques for doing things. These may come from the way you were brought up, or things you observed, or techniques that you developed on your own. You might see those as ‘my way’ and ‘your way’. As a couple, it is best to come up with ‘our way’.
From “Your Way” or “My Way” to “Our Way” Read More »
In a marriage, there will be a healthy exchange of views and even differences of opinion. The unanimity of everything is no great sign of a perfect relationship. Dating is in a sense a mini-marriage, so getting a sense of how you can resolve differences is an important step in the transition towards true couplehood.
Are you frightened by the difference of opinion? Read More »
When the physical appearance continually proves to be an obstacle, it is often the product of the person’s own inhibitions and not the result of some meaningful preference that he or she has just not yet found.
Are you fixated by appearance? Read More »
Our earlier experiences around the holidays impact how we celebrate them as adults. Sharing your Pesach memories can help you both better understand why you feel certain ways about different aspects of Pesach. You may also decide together about creating new family traditions and experiences. You might talk about
#6 Talk about your Pesach experiences Read More »
We would all like to be relaxed and in control, but sometimes people get caught up in worries that lead to behaviors that others find challenging and which end up producing poor results.
How and why anxiety can get the better of you in dating. Read More »
When dating, it is so important to put most of your focus on “the fundamentals,” the absolutely most core parts of a person’s character.
The Five Fundamentals – The factors most important to look for in a spouse. Read More »
There are people who struggle with the very first dates. The communication skills for the first dates are different than most other communication; and some people find this difficult. These skills can be learned.
Why the first two dates are so important. Read More »
There are people who struggle with the very first dates. The communication skills for the first dates are different than most other communication; and some people find this difficult. These skills can be learned.
Why the first few dates are so important. Read More »
3 Conversations you might have this week What do you wish would go on sale? What do you know how to do that you can teach someone else? What is something you wish you would have spoken to spouse about already but have not yet found the right words or opportunity? 2 Quotes to inspire
Adai Ad’s Weekly 3-2-1 [03/07/2021] Read More »
