Without realizing it, some people are actually looking for opposites in a single person – which may explain why things are not going so well. It is not impossible for those differing traits to exist in one person, but that is quite rare, and often brings its own problems. It is usually wiser to choose […]
Conflicting and confused priorities. Read More »
If someone is asking this question, they are quite obviously facing a massive dilemma. We are addressing someone who assumes and plans to get married but who is questioning themselves. One possible element of the issue is trying to work out what their sexual preference or orientation really is. Some people are genuinely frightened of
I feel attraction to my own gender, can I get married? Read More »
A good number of people could struggle with the very first dates. They tend to be those who are less adept at social interaction and find the early process of getting to know someone rather difficult. Where the problem is most challenging is for people who are not the most articulate or strong communicators. During
Why the first few dates are so important. Read More »
The five most important traits affecting relationships are: Emotional stability/Low neuroticism – Agitation, anger, irritation, hostility, touchiness, defensiveness Agreeableness – Degree of niceness and friendliness Conscientiousness – Making an effort for the relationship, having determination and not being fickle Openness – Willingness to share, to listen, to be generous Extroversion – How outgoing and loud a person is, how fun-loving
The Five Fundamentals – The factors most important to look for in a spouse. Read More »
The five most important traits affecting relationships are: Emotional stability/Low neuroticism – Agitation, anger, irritation, hostility, touchiness, defensiveness Agreeableness – Degree of niceness and friendliness Conscientiousness – Making an effort for the relationship, having determination and not being fickle Openness – Willingness to share, to listen, to be generous Extroversion – How outgoing and loud a person is, how fun-loving
The Five Fundamentals – The factors most important to look for in a spouse. Read More »
Some people have what is known as an “anxious attachment orientation”, which means that they hold on extra tight to the person they are attached to. They are likely to want to constantly be in contact with their love-interest, want to know exactly where they are all the time, and react poorly when their date
How and why anxiety can get the better of you in dating. Read More »
Some people have what is known as an “anxious attachment orientation”, which means that they hold on extra tight to the person they are attached to. They are likely to want to constantly be in contact with their love-interest, want to know exactly where they are all the time, and react poorly when their date
How and why anxiety can get the better of you in dating. Read More »
People often insist that the reason that they give such prominence to the physical attractiveness of their date is because it is greatly important to them. The reason why they have turned down so many dates is because they were not the “look” they are searching for. Perhaps. But what if there is something entirely
Are you fixated by appearance? Read More »
Dating is mostly about ensuring there is a great deal of agreement: about values, life goals, mutual interest, and so on. But there does not need to be universal agreement. It is perfectly okay, and more than likely, for a dating couple to discover that they have differences of opinion on various issues. It is
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Dating can leave some people feeling nervous, anxious, and worried. Remember that opening up to someone relatively quickly is not something we have to do in any other situation, so it is not surprising if some people will find the experience hard. It is not uncommon for people to start out self-conscious, shy, or nervous.
I am painfully quiet and find dating worrying and challenging. Read More »
