Don’t take life so seriously all the time. Make time to laugh together. To do something goofy. Spontaneous. Irresponsible.
Make some space in the busyness of your life for playing. If you are the spontaneous type, then just let serendipity reign. Or, you can create a list of things your’d like to try, just beyond your comfort zone. Reach back into your childhood for what you considered play.
You can build sandcastles, play in the snow, stack cups into a tower, write messages to each other in the frost on a window or with dry erase markers. Silly stuff.