Show your spouse that you notice who they are and what they bring to your life and to the world – their dedication to your family, their passion for their work, the way they always can help you out of a bad mood.
Compliment your spouse on one of their unique strengths. Make it genuine and authentic. And not a typical cliche.
Add examples or stories to really strengthen the compliment.
“I love how you always find solutions to every problem that comes our way. Nothing phases you. Like the time when … and also … You seem to get excited with every one of these crazy challenges that come our way.”