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May 15, 2019

Don’t polarize, assuming it is all your fault or all your spouse’s.

Don’t take the yoke and stress of full responsibility – if it is not all yours.
Don’t push full responsibility (blame) onto your spouse – if you did contribute to the issue.

Most likely it is a case of shared responsibility.
Reflect on what you each have contributed to the issue.
Take responsibility for your part.
And then address the issue together.

Instead of having assumptions

"Feeling gratitude and not

Focus on your spouse's

It's important to have

“Expectations = Resentment” It doesn’

Say nice things about

Words of affirmation deepen

Are there double standards

You can say no

It's nicer to be

Instead of having assumptions

"Feeling gratitude and not

Focus on your spouse's

It's important to have

“Expectations = Resentment” It doesn’

Say nice things about

Words of affirmation deepen

Are there double standards

You can say no

It's nicer to be

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