DISCUSS TOGETHER

Discuss how you would like to be asked to do or give to your spouse.

1. What words or tone would make you feel more inspired to give?  What words really do the opposite?
2. If the answer is “no” or “not now”, how would you like to hear that?
3. How do you feel when you get a “reluctant yes” (when someone does something for you, even if they didn’t want to)?  Is there a better way to hear it?