With all your imperfection and imbalances, if you have the proper degree of empathy and respect for each other’s strengths and weaknesses, you can work with those differences.

  • What is your most significant difference? And the second most significant? (and a third?)
  • How much of your money conflicts are attributed to each of these differences?
  • For each of your differences, rate how strong each of you are in your money type.


  • Each of you should acknowledge secret envies and appreciations of each other’s money style. Be as open, honest and vulnerable as you can tolerate being.
  • Share with each other one way you would like to be more like the other.
  • For each difference, work together to come to a reasonable middle. It can be a new action, attitude or behavior. Reflect together on the progress.
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