Men and women are mostly the same. Both want to be happy and have a strong need to love and be loved.
There are also differences between men and women. Differences such as what makes them happy in a relationship and family. Differences in how they address problems. Differences in what they like to do. Differences in how they de-stress. Lots of differences.
Yes, a woman can do what most men can do. But she isn’t necessarily at her happiest when she has to do it. And similarly with men.
Let a man be a man. Let a woman be a woman. Don’t expect your husband to be like your girl friends. Don’t expect your wife to be like one of the guys.
Your marriage needs what a man and a woman bring to a relationship and shared responsibilities.