Schedule a date night or day often. Put it on your calendar. Keep that time sacred.
While it is worthwhile to set aside a budget for special times, it doesn’t always have to cost money. A nice walk on the beach. A drive to nowhere. Walk through a new neighborhood. Stay home and play a board game. People watching. Take a free class together. Many museums have free nights. Browse through a book store. Be creative.
It’s about time spent together. Undistracted by phones or children.