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Not every mistake needs a mention. Ever.

If it is a ‘one-off’, let it go. Forgive and forget.

In the same way that you don’t like to be reminded about every mistake you made, neither does your spouse. Your spouse is human. Let it go.


If it is a trend, or there is an important life or marriage lesson to be learned, think about HOW (and when) to bring it up before gets bigger or deeper entrenched into the culture of your marriage.
→ How to gauge: if when you do bring it up, will your spouse’s comment “why didn’t you bring this up earlier?” be a reasonable comment? Then bring it up as soon as you are noticing the pattern emerging.

J.O.T. [Just One Thing]

Through the years, many clients and students have reached out for guidance and support. They came seeking encouragement and assistance with relationship challenges. They asked tough questions. They explored their role in the relationship. They enhanced their communication and conflict resolution skills.  They adopted productive mindsets that helped them enrich their marriage, family life and so many other aspects of their lives.

Adai Ad’s (JOT) Just One Thing series was developed to share short and practical relationship insights, tools and mindsets every morning (via whatsapp and social media). These are widely received all over the world.

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