One of the most important questions to ask on a shiduch date is: “What do you mean by that?” Make sure you are working from the same understanding.

So much of how we understand someone else’s words depends on our context – how we see and experience the world. Words can have different meanings to people. What does ‘independent’ mean to you – self sufficient, opinionated, free-spirited, individualistic, unconventional or something else?

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