If the shiduch needs to end, be a mench about it. This is not about you – it’s about them. Do what you believe in your gut is the right way to let them know. Even if it makes you feel uncomfortable.
You’ve been dating someone for a few times. You’ve both shared about yourselves and know quite a bit about each other. And then you determine that this person is not for you, and you want to end the relationship.
Remember, this is a vulnerable time for both of you. How you end the relationship should be done with dignity and respect – for both of your sakes.