#036: Don’t surprise her with a proposal.

Don’t surprise her with a proposal.   How you propose can be a surprise, but not that you will be proposing.  Make sure she will be comfortable saying yes (that it is not too early).

You should have had conversations about a life together. You should have had conversations about a possible date for an official announcement of your engagement.

Many people keep the shadchan involved throughout the dating so they can find out if she is ready for the life-changing question.

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