Shiduch Dating

Shiduchim. Every person’s experience is unique. There are no rules. People have lots of questions and concerns. 

Adai Ad aims to provide guidance and support through the journey. We have instituted the Shiduch University to support daters through the various stages of relationships.  We also have several resources covering a range of topics related to dating and relationships.

Adai Ad also provides dating coaching for those who want a more personalized support before and during dating. 

 

Shiduch University covers a range of topics related to Shiduchim and dating relationships. These are categorized according to the various stages of the dating relationship: from before knowing each other, through getting to know each other, then developing the relationship and finally to committing to marriage. 

If you have any other questions, please ask. We will incorporate it into a future Shiduch University lesson.

1. Dating, in general
2. Getting to Know Each Other
3. Developing the Relationship
4. Committing to Marriage

Adai Ad Articles

Dating Insights for Parents & Advocates

Dear parents, you mean well, but …

A young lady writes a letter to her parents: I know you want to see me settled in a happy marriage, and that is why you are working so diligently for a shiduch for me. I love you, I truly appreciate your intent, but the way you are going about...

There are NO RULES in Shiduchim.

Frequently asked questions about the shiduch process.

Your shiduch ‘wishlist’

As you work through a list of qualities that you absolutely must have in a spouse, it is also important to state to yourself WHY that is so crucial to you for a successful marriage.

Getting parents & adult children on the same page

When parents and children are 'not on the same page about shiduchim', it causes much frustration, waste of time and efforts, and overall disillusionment with the shidduch system. This article shares some ways an adult child might discuss this with their parents. Respect and appreciation for your parents are crucial...

How Much Truth to Share If Someone Calls You about a Shiduch?

You get that shiduch research phone call. What can you say?  Does sharing about these details violate some halachot of lashon hara? 

Dating Insights for Singles

Shiduchim: Are we writing off people too quickly?

 By Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Undoubtedly, we all have challenges in our lives. But, at least on the surface, some people’s challenges are more profound, and – in the arena of shidduchim – too often become a basis for wonderful people not to be given the opportunity as...

When, Not If: Discussing Personal Issues on a Shidduch Date

 By Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Q: “I am dating Leah and she seems like a great girl. I heard some rumors about her family though she hasn’t said anything. Should I just assume that what I heard is just gossip from angry neighbors? I do want to get...

How well do you know her?

For men (click here for women’s version) Her values Her values should be compatible with yours. They do not have to be identical. How does she envision her family life to be? her role? her husband’s role? What drives her? What does she see as her purpose in life? How does her...

Date a Person, Not a Diagnosis

Why you should you consider dating someone who has a medical condition.

Dear parents, you mean well, but …

A young lady writes a letter to her parents: I know you want to see me settled in a happy marriage, and that is why you are working so diligently for a shiduch for me. I love you, I truly appreciate your intent, but the way you are going about...

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