You may be a great driver. You can speed and weave and change the volume all at the same time. But that makes your spouse queasy. (And they probably have let you know that.)
So even though you absolutely know that you are a great driver… or you love the feeling of control or adrenaline when speeding and weaving … or even if you are going to be late, show your spouse that you care about their feelings, and drive the way they ask you to.
(If your spouse is asking you to speed up, change lanes or the like and you don’t feel comfortable doing that, then don’t. If are not comfortable doing something behind the wheel, then it isn’t safe for you to do it.)