Sometimes, the mess is so deep, so overwhelming, so ingrained. You simply can’t figure out how to address it with the tools and resources you have.
It is in those times, that you MUST call in the help that is available. Even if it costs some money. Even if it feels somewhat awkward (though it really shouldn’t). Even if you don’t know exactly what kind of support you need. It is your home after all. The place where you should be able to relax and recharge after a hard day. In peace and tranquility.