1. Discuss this scenario using Clean communication ( whole and clear messages).
You asked your spouse to [do something] and it still is not done after several weeks.
2. Discuss what it feels like to be on the receiving side of a negative comparison.
“You remind me of my worst teacher.”
3. Discuss what it feels like when you are reminded of past mistakes.
“You are doing it again. Don’t you ever learn?”
4. Discuss what it feels like to be on the receiving side of global labels.
“You are so lazy.”