Reword these statements as REQUESTS.
Your spouse was the last one to use the car, and now it is on ‘empty’.
“I hate when I have to go to the gas station on my to work.”
You both have a wedding tonight. Your spouse is still not ready.
“Why do we always leave so late?”
Your spouse is still not home, although they said they’ll be home 30 minutes ago.
“I don’t like that you come and go as you please.”