Reword these statements with a question.
The shirts are all wrinkled when your spouse did the laundry.
GUESSING: “I guess you don’t believe in taking the shirts out of the dryer before they get all wrinkled.”
You both have a wedding tonight. Your spouse is still not ready.
WONDERING: “I’m wondering when we will be leaving.”
It’s rush hour, you are afraid you’ll be late for a meeting.
ASSUMING: “You’re taking the highway, right?”