Words to Avoid: “If you really loved me, you’d …?”

This is a passive-aggressive way to communicate your needs. Your spouse shouldn’t feel pressured to do something to prove their love.

Instead, make a request in a non-confrontational and direct way – in a way that connects you, rather in a way that creates a divide. You might say, “I miss spending time with you, and I’d like to go out to dinner this weekend.”

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