No one person can meet another person’s every need. Don’t put that expectation on yourself. Or on your spouse.  That is too much pressure on each of you and the relationship.

Allow your spouse to have other people in their lives. Encourage them to have friendships, get advice from others, spend time with family too.

Have other people in your life.  Keep up your friendships, relationships with family. Reach out to mentors or advisors.