Shiduch U

Shiduch Dating

Shiduchim. Every person’s experience is unique. There are no rules. People have lots of questions and concerns.?

Adai Ad aims to provide guidance and support through the journey. We have instituted the Shiduch University to support daters through the various stages of relationships.? We also have several resources covering a range of topics related to dating and relationships.

Adai Ad also provides dating coaching for those who want a more personalized support before and during dating.?

Shidduchim. Every person’s experience is unique. There are no rules. People have lots of questions and concerns.

Adai Ad aims to provide guidance and support through the journey. We have instituted the Shidduch University to support daters through the various stages of relationships. We also have several resources covering a range of topics related to dating and relationships.
Adai Ad also provides dating coaching for those who want a more personalized support before and during dating.

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(This series is funded by a grant from the New York City DOVE initiative recommended by Council Member Rita Joseph)

Marriage is a big step in life and you want to make sure you are ready for the commitment and responsibility of a marriage relationship. In this series, we speak to professionals about important aspects to think about as you prepare for marriage.

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A card deck of 200 questions to jumpstart meaningful and interesting conversations – to laugh, to share, to get to know each other, and to build your potential relationship. These can help you uncover deeper and richer insights about yourself and your date
and your potential relationship.

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Shidduchim. Every person’s experience is unique. For some people, dating can be a challenging and sometimes frustrating experience, and having someone to talk to who understands what you’re going through can be immensely helpful. 

One of the things I can do is help you create a dating strategy that takes into account your unique personality, preferences and needs. We’ll work together to identify any areas where you might be getting in your own way, and come up with a plan to overcome those obstacles. I can also give you practical advice on things like creating a dating profile, working with or without a shadchan, and navigating tricky situations like first dates and having uncomfortable conversations.

But it’s not just about strategy and advice – I’m also here to provide emotional support and encouragement. Dating can be tough, and it’s easy to get discouraged or burnt out. That’s where I come in! I’ll be your cheerleader, your sounding board, and your confidante throughout the dating process. With my help, you’ll be able to approach dating with confidence, clarity, and maybe even some fun!

Thank Yous

Just wanted to personally let you know that I got engaged this past Sunday B”H! wanted to thank you for all coaching and advice you gave me.

I spent a lot of time going over the topics we discussed and preparing how/what to share.

It was especially helpful for when it came to sharing certain things that we discussed. the concept of 'dripping' and gauging the way he responds to what I share was extremely helpful.

Firstly, it helped me feel more comfortable having the harder conversations because I was already able to tell he would be responsive and understanding. Secondly, it helped me notice and be more aware of certain important qualities he has that ultimately helped me realize I’m with someone who is good for me.

The webinars you put out also gave me so much knowledge! Really appreciate the help!!!!! Thank you!

C.L.

2022

I so appreciate our conversations. You are so intuitive and easy to talk to. You helped me realize where I was getting stuck and now I'm in a better place with dating. I'm no longer anxious. I actually am enjoying the dating more now that I am more relaxed about it.

Thank you

Z.M.

2023

About Dating

In this section, we divide the dating topics into 4 sections: 1. Dating in General 2. Getting to Know Eachother 3. Developing the Relationship 4. Committing to Marriage. 

Click on each image to read more about the topic.

Dating in General

Getting to Know Each Other

Developing the Relationship

Committing to Marriage

Resources

Are You Ready
for Marriage?

Questions to
Build Relationships

Small Talk
for First Dates

Questions to Ask a Reference
About a Young Lady

Questions to Ask a Reference about a Young Man

What to do
on a date

Before Committing
 to Marriage

Shidduch
Lists

Profiles, Resumes, 
 Reference Sheets

Recognizing Red Flags
of Controlling Tendencies

Recognizing
 Narcissistic Tendencies

Articles

Support

Insights about Shidduchim

OPEN PDFs
Insights from Shadchanim

Shiduch University covers a range of topics related to Shiduchim and dating relationships. These are categorized according to the various stages of the dating relationship: from before knowing each other, through getting to know each other, then developing the relationship and finally to committing to marriage.

If you have any other questions, please ask. We will incorporate it into a future Shiduch University lesson.

Dating, in general

Getting to Know Each Other

Developing the Relationship

Committing to Marriage

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