As two individuals with unique backgrounds and perspectives, it’s natural for us to see things differently. There’s no right or wrong way—just different ways of understanding the world around us. When your spouse shares an opinion that doesn’t align with yours, try to understand and empathize with their point of view.

➡️ Ask them to share how they arrived at their perspective, approaching the conversation with genuine curiosity and respect. You might say,💬 “I really want to understand your perspective. Can you share how you came to that approach?”

Even if you still see things differently after hearing their viewpoint, it’s important to show respect for their perspective. You might respond with, 💬 “Ah, I can understand your perspective, and it makes sense from your point of view. I see things a bit differently, though. Let’s see if we can find a way to reconcile these differences or perhaps find a middle ground that combines both our viewpoints. How about we work together to find a compromise that honors both of our perspectives?”

💡 By approaching our differences with empathy, curiosity, and respect, we can strengthen our connection and navigate challenges together as a team.