There is pleasure in delighting in each other’s happiness and accomplishments. One of the best ways to show your spouse you really care is to go out of your way to celebrate good things that happen to them. Celebrating success boosts self esteem and the morale for both of you. Knowing each other’s strengths also deepens your relationship. For this to happen, each of you must share your accomplishments and good fortune.

• What was a situation or challenge that you addressed with good results? What actions did you take? What were the results?
• Which of your strengths, talents, character traits, habits or passions did you work from in order to achieve whatever it was?  [Name them and refer to them in the future.]
• How do you like to celebrate such accomplishments?  In public? As a couple?