When people get married they never dream that they might be betrayed by their spouse. BH, it doesn’t happen often. But if it does happen to someone, it is such a shocking realization. It’s like living in a nightmare. There is shock, devastation, profound hurt and feelings of being betrayed and blind-sided. What happens next? Can someone get through it? Can the marriage survive? Moshe Zev Lamm, LCSW discusses what to do when the betrayal is discovered, and more importantly what not to do.