Boundaries: What are they and why do we need them?
with: Elana Chasser, LCSW, CSAT, CMAT
Devora Krasnianski speaks with Elena Chasser, LCSW about Boundaries and Dating. When we talk about boundaries in dating, we are talking about balance and respect. And we unpack that in this conversation. Elana shares 5 types of boundaries that might come up in dating – what respecting those boundaries looks like and what crossing might feel like. And sometimes, it’s very nuanced.
Boundaries: What are they and why do we need them?
with: Elana Chasser, LCSW, CSAT, CMAT
Devora Krasnianski speaks with Elena Chasser, LCSW about Boundaries and Dating. When we talk about boundaries in dating, we are talking about balance and respect. And we unpack that in this conversation. Elana shares 5 types of boundaries that might come up in dating – what respecting those boundaries looks like and what crossing might feel like. And sometimes, it’s very nuanced.
Show Notes
Devora Krasnianski speaks with Elena Chasser, LCSW about Boundaries and Dating. When we talk about boundaries in dating, we are talking about balance and respect. And we unpack that in this conversation. Elana shares 5 types of boundaries that might come up in dating – what respecting those boundaries looks like and what crossing might feel like. And sometimes, it’s very nuanced.
– — To reach Elana Chasser, LSCW
Website: https://elanachasser.com
Phone: 516-489-2652
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1:13 How are we defining boundaries?
2:26 Boundaries in dating: 5 key aspects
3:15 Verbal boundaries
6:30 Physical boundaries
12:35 Emotional boundaries
14:34 Relational boundaries
19:24 Gaslighting and love-bombing
24:02 Paying attention to what might be going on
27:51 Behavioral boundaries
34:02 Respect differences
37:27 Getting someone else’s perspective and support
40:30 Mistakes sometimes happen during dating
42:44 Do you see that you have grown together (even a little bit)
44:59 Move at the pace of the slower one
50:08 Why some people have a hard time opening up
52:22 Wrapping up
– — To reach Elana Chasser, LSCW
Website: https://elanachasser.com
Phone: 516-489-2652
—
1:13 How are we defining boundaries?
2:26 Boundaries in dating: 5 key aspects
3:15 Verbal boundaries
6:30 Physical boundaries
12:35 Emotional boundaries
14:34 Relational boundaries
19:24 Gaslighting and love-bombing
24:02 Paying attention to what might be going on
27:51 Behavioral boundaries
34:02 Respect differences
37:27 Getting someone else’s perspective and support
40:30 Mistakes sometimes happen during dating
42:44 Do you see that you have grown together (even a little bit)
44:59 Move at the pace of the slower one
50:08 Why some people have a hard time opening up
52:22 Wrapping up