How do I know this is the ‘one’?
with: Mayer Zuckerman, LCSW
Devora Krasnianski speaks with Mayer Zuckerman, LCSW, a licensed therapist with lots of experience working with young people in dating and relationships. We spoke about is it is possible to really know that this is the one. We also spoke about what aspects should be similar and where differences can work. And how to make the big decision. We unpack all that in this conversation.
How do I know this is the ‘one’?
with: Mayer Zuckerman, LCSW
Devora Krasnianski speaks with Mayer Zuckerman, LCSW, a licensed therapist with lots of experience working with young people in dating and relationships. We spoke about is it is possible to really know that this is the one. We also spoke about what aspects should be similar and where differences can work. And how to make the big decision. We unpack all that in this conversation.
Show Notes
Devora Krasnianski speaks with Mayer Zuckerman, LCSW a licensed therapist with lots of experience working with young people in dating and relationships. We spoke about is it is possible to really know that this is the one. We also spoke about what aspects should be similar and where differences can work. And how to make the big decision. We unpack all that in this conversation.
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https://www.adaiad.org/shidduch-u
https://www.maskparents.org/
(This series is funded by a grant from the New York City DOVE initiative recommended by Council Member Rita Joseph)
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To reach Mayer Zuckerman, LCSW:
Email: mayer@mayerzuckermanlcsw.com
00:03:58 Can we ever really know this is the ‘one’?
00:07:25 Commitment to the one you chose
00:09:42 What really lasts throughout the length of the marriage
00:14:29 Values should be compatible
00:21:58 Importance of self-awareness for dating
00:24:57 Who to talk to when dating
00:33:31 Only the ones dating should make the decision about marriage
00:36:03 Don’t withhold important information
00:44:44 Q: I generally have a hard time making decisions
00:51:15 Q: We’re good on paper, but I’m not feeling it
01:00:07 Inspiration for those struggling in shidduchim
01:03:19 Wrap up
Discussed during the show
See previous episodes about sharing about mental illness, trauma, addictions, etc. in the Marriage Ready series
–
https://www.adaiad.org/shidduch-u
https://www.maskparents.org/
(This series is funded by a grant from the New York City DOVE initiative recommended by Council Member Rita Joseph)
—
To reach Mayer Zuckerman, LCSW:
Email: mayer@mayerzuckermanlcsw.com
00:03:58 Can we ever really know this is the ‘one’?
00:07:25 Commitment to the one you chose
00:09:42 What really lasts throughout the length of the marriage
00:14:29 Values should be compatible
00:21:58 Importance of self-awareness for dating
00:24:57 Who to talk to when dating
00:33:31 Only the ones dating should make the decision about marriage
00:36:03 Don’t withhold important information
00:44:44 Q: I generally have a hard time making decisions
00:51:15 Q: We’re good on paper, but I’m not feeling it
01:00:07 Inspiration for those struggling in shidduchim
01:03:19 Wrap up
Discussed during the show
See previous episodes about sharing about mental illness, trauma, addictions, etc. in the Marriage Ready series