In our digital age, algorithms predict our next move, our favorite songs, and even our online shopping desires. They often appear to understand our preferences, desires, and habits – even better than our loved ones do.
We can bridge this gap by making an effort to better understand our loved ones and allowing them to know us more intimately. By mirroring the inquisitive nature of algorithms and also fostering open communication, we can strengthen our connections and create deeper intimacy.
- Show Genuine Interest: Ask questions and listen attentively to their answers.
- Share Your World: Share your life with them—your aspirations, dreams, frustrations, achievements, and struggles.
- Cultivate Curiosity: Be curious about their passions and interests. Take the time to learn what drives them.
- Celebrate Achievements: Celebrate successes together, no matter how big or small.
- Support Dreams: Support their dreams and offer assistance when possible. Seek solutions to help make their dreams a reality or dream together.