When we run into differences or difficult situations, we often fall into either/or thinking: “Either your way or my way,” “Either do this or do that.

Instead, look for the AND. Seek ways to incorporate multiple perspectives, needs, or solutions into the situation. Rather than feeling forced to choose between two opposing options, find a way to include both. This approach creates more possibilities, fosters flexibility, and finds balance where conflict might seem inevitable. It starts with the determination to find a solution that goes beyond either/or thinking.

Importantly, there isn’t just one specific AND solution. Embracing the AND is a mindset—a way of thinking that continuously seeks to integrate diverse elements instead of settling for binary choices. This mindset encourages ongoing problem-solving that doesn’t sacrifice one thing for another but blends them harmoniously. It expands your thinking and opens up space for more creative, inclusive outcomes.