It’s a loving act to call up the intention to love, especially in the way our partner needs it most. Understanding their love language, whether it’s through physical touch, acts of service, gift-giving, words of affirmation, or quality time, can help us show our love in a way that resonates with them.

Focus on the Positive.  Focus on the positive aspects of your spouse and relationship, deliberately seeking out the good even amidst challenges. Allow your partner to be human, letting go of the little things that often cause unnecessary stress. Appreciate their inner beauty, understanding their struggles and celebrating their unique qualities.

Embrace Differences. Try to understand your partner’s perspective by considering their stresses, worries, and longings. Look at the world through their eyes, acknowledging the external and internal forces that influence their actions. Accept and celebrate their differences and uniqueness, recognizing that it’s okay not to see eye-to-eye on everything. Be flexible in your relationship, prioritizing compromise and understanding over rigidity.