Make time to reflect on your relationship together and inquire into questions like ‘How is the relationship doing?’ ‘What is going well?’ ‘Where have we been struggling?’ ‘How are we doing with our dreams and goals?’ ‘What do we each desire?’ ‘How can we support each other?’

Doing this often strengthens the bond between you and makes both of you more aware of what is and isn’t working in your relationship. Before it escalates into bigger and deeper issues.