Developing common interests and hobbies strengthens the idea that you and your spouse are a team. When you share a passion for the same interests, it can bond you together.

When you both enjoy doing something, and you do it together – you end up spending time together. And it is pleasant and happy time together. Plus, you create happy memories.

These are key components to developing a deep, strong bond.

Additionally, when things get tough or there’s a strain on the relationship, you have your common interests to fall back on to get things back on track.

There’s nothing wrong with husbands and wives having different likes and dislikes based on their unique personalities, talents, and experiences. But when they get too caught up in “doing their own thing,” they are missing out on critical opportunities to connect with one another.

Prepare an evening to discuss your interests, hobbies, favorite things to do and some things you’d like to try out.
Then, create a master list of things you’d each like to try and discuss which you’d like to try together.
And lastly, pick one and set a time to get started on that.

Some questions to get you going:
• What were some of your favorite hobbies as a child?
• Do you prefer activities that are more physical in nature, or those that provide a mental challenge?
• What hobby or interests would you pursue if time and money were not factors?
• What are each of your current interests or hobbies?

To spark your imagination, you can also look through a list of activities. For example: photography, nature, museums, community work, cooking, fooding, gardening, hiking, woodworking, reading. You can also look for local classes and events. (Google for ideas)

It is important for your relationship to spend quality time together.