Summer days often bring visions of perfect moments in the sun, but expecting everything to be flawless can leave us feeling let down when things don’t go exactly as planned. Instead of aiming for a flawless day, focus on enjoying what’s happening right now and finding joy in the simple things together—like a spontaneous picnic or a walk in the park.

Everyone has their own idea of what makes a perfect summer day, so it’s helpful to talk about it together. Find a balance that works for everyone by mixing and matching activities that everyone enjoys. Keep plans flexible enough to allow for fun surprises without getting bogged down in too much planning. By being open to each other’s ideas and going with the flow, you can make the most of summer and create memories that everyone will cherish.