Do it because you love and care about your spouse. Not for reciprocation or out of guilt or obligation. Just because you want to make a tiny part of their life easier or better.
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Choose your clothing the night before so you don’t wake your spouse in the morning with opening and closing doors and drawers and lights.
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Change the lightbulb as soon as you notice it has burned out.
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-Entertain the kids so your spouse can wake up just a bit later.