Create a master list for yourself about your spouse’s positive qualities. You can refer back to this list when you need a reminder. Just doing this exercise is a major booster for marriage. Write these down; don’t just think it.

• What are 3 qualities that originally attracted me to my spouse?
• What are 3 favorite memories with my spouse?
• What are 3 ways that you spouse shows you appreciation/respect?
• What are 3 reasons you value your spouse?