🤔Do you really know how your spouse feels about how you show up in your marriage? Are you being an equal partner? Are you truly friends? Are you a real support?

Do you talk openly about how you’re doing in the relationship — or do you avoid it because you’re afraid of hearing where you could improve?

🎯Avoiding these conversations won’t help. It only keeps things from growing, feeds frustration, and possibly even leads to resentment. Honest reflection and open dialogue are key to strengthening your connection. It’s about growth. It’s about becoming the partner you want to be — and the one your spouse needs.

Try asking:
• 💬 “How am I doing as a husband/wife?”
• 💬 “What’s one thing I can do to make you feel more cherished/appreciated/respected?”
• 💬 “What’s something I can improve on to be a better partner?”

Then, really listen to what they say.

This kind of openness builds trust, deepens your connection, and shows that you care about their feelings and the health of your relationship.

💡 Tip: Schedule these conversations regularly — whether weekly or monthly — to keep your connection strong and ensure you’re both growing together.