Both spouses contribute to the wellbeing of the marriage relationship. That means that if something isn’t working as you hope or wish or expect, you do have some part in that.

Whatever you were doing in your marriage until now, put that behind you. Bring out the next version for your marriage, for your family, for you. You 2.0.
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Put your marriage ahead of your ego. Allow yourself to be vulnerable. You can be the first one (or seemingly the only one) to make a change.
Let’s give it up for … the new and improved you.