We really don’t know what is going on in the mind and heart of other people. Yet, sometimes we try to decipher their thoughts and feelings. We assume we have insight into their motivations and intentions about they are doing what they are doing (or not doing), or what they will say or do next. And we react from that place. But that usually is not quite the best response. Because we really didn’t know what is going on for them.

Relying on mind-reading as a coping mechanism isn’t a reliable way to handle a situation. Genuine communication – even if it is difficult – is far more effective in understanding and addressing the issue at hand.

Avoiding difficult conversations by attempting to read minds is like applying a temporary bandage to a deeper wound. Sure, it might provide a momentary relief from discomfort, but it doesn’t address the underlying issue. Moreover, it denies both people the opportunity for authentic connection and growth.

Conversations, even the tough ones – or especially the tough ones – are the building blocks of relationships, fostering understanding and mutual respect. It is important to muster the courage to confront the challenge head-on and get clarity into the situation. ❗ Listen with willingness to learn. ❗Listen with curiosity, respect, and humility. ❗Be open to the possibility that you might have a role to play in the situation.

It’s through these such honest exchanges that we pave the way for genuine understanding and meaningful connections.