If you are not getting the outcomes you want (or hope for), maybe it’s something you are doing (or not doing).

Get to know your patterns that are not getting you the outcomes you are hoping for and take tiny steps to change those.

If you don’t ask for what you want and instead hint, you often don’t get what you want. Recognize that pattern and do something different.

The next time your birthday is coming, don’t do your regular hinting and hoping. Take a step out of your comfort zone and say, “My birthday is next week and I would like [whatever].”

If you don’t like to deal with money and avoid important conversations, there probably are negative consequences. Notice the pattern and break out of it.

This may not be easy at all. After all, there was a reason you got into the habit of hinting rather than saying it straight out, or avoiding hard conversations.

It won’t be easy. Do it anyway. Remain resolute; break out of that pattern that is limiting you in so many ways. Your life will become easier and freer.

Envision the better life that is just beyond your limiting beliefs and comfort zone.  Take a deep breathe and break that pattern.

One tiny tiny step at a time.