It takes time to define your core values and life purpose. But it is key to making good choices for your life. How can you forge a path when you don’t know where you are going?

So, once you have defined your values, life’s purpose and priorities, turn them into a set of guiding questions to help you navigate through life.
• Is this option aligned with my core values? What, if any, are the conflicts?
• How might the conflicts interfere with living according to my values? Is there a way to tweak the situation so that the conflict is truly resolved? (truly resolved, not rationalized away)
• Does pursuing this option mean I will have to change my values or dreams? Is it worth it?
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Of course, there will be times that you do things that are not totally aligned with your values (family, social or community obligations, a wasted afternoon, a slice of cheesecake – despite your best planned goals). Allow yourself to do those, but not too often.