Studies show that such sharing is good for both – beyond the effect of the event itself. It is linked to greater feelings of trust, intimacy and satisfaction in the relationship.

The effect is even more pronounced when the listener celebrates enthusiastically and doesn’t focus on the potential concerns. “They love my work and want me to move to another city to open a new branch.” Stick to the happy part first, later you can bring up concerns. Share the joy and the significance of the event for them. “Wow, it’s great that they see your talents and hard work. I’m so excited for you.”

Turn it into a conversation. Ask questions about it. Build on their excitement.