We are not talking about taunting or belittling. It’s that playful ribbing that creates bonding. It’s gently poking fun at personal quirks you find entertaining and endearing.

Teasing is great because it shows that you really know your partner inside and out and that you love their greatest attributes and biggest flaws equally.

Laughter and teasing can help de-escalate conflict and help you remember that you actually like each other.

Stay clear of pressing each other’s buttons – insecurities, family vulnerabilities, and things that your partner may feel shame around.

Build on your own inside jokes. Keep it light and playful.

Don’t do it all the time; it is the randomness that makes it more enjoyable.

NOTE: If teasing is not fun for BOTH of you, don’t do it. Keep an eye out for cues that it has gone too far.