Ignoring the mess doesn’t make it less of a mess. Neither does denial. Neither does wishing it away or hoping that someone else will take care of it.

It doesn’t just get clean by itself. (‘Just point and junk disappears’ is just a marketing ploy from a junk removal company.) It may seem overwhelming. But just about any mess can be tackled and eventually it can be cleaned up.

It all starts with the desire to make that change. and then getting going. Slow steady progress.

💖 Similarly, problems in marriage and relationships won’t go away unless you actively address them and take steps toward resolution, as ignoring or denying them will only make them worse over time and lead to further damage. It may seem daunting, but with the desire for change and steady progress, any issue can be tackled and eventually resolved.