Helping your spouse know you.

Most people want to feel known.
But being known requires sharing yourself, too.

If you have a preference, share it.
If something makes you feel loved, share it.
If something is important to you, share it.
If there is a reason something matters deeply to you,
share your why.

Sometimes we hope people will figure it out on their own.
Or read our mind.
Or get our hints.

But relationships become much easier when we help each other understand us.

Because your spouse is not supposed to guess who you are.
They are supposed to get to know who you are.

And that becomes much easier when you are willing to share yourself.

The goal is not to make your spouse guess.
The goal is to help them love you well.