It’s tempting to say this—especially when you’ve dropped hints, or you feel like your emotions should be obvious.
But “You should know how I feel” usually lands as blame, not connection.

🎯 It turns a moment that could build closeness into a moment of frustration or shame.
It implies they’ve failed a test they didn’t know they were taking.

Even in close relationships, people aren’t mind readers. They might sense that something is off, but not what or why. And when emotional signals aren’t clear, people tend to fill in the blanks with their own fears or assumptions.

Share, don’t scold. Invite connection instead of demanding it.

💬 “I want to let you in on how I’m feeling.”
💬 “I assumed you knew, but I think I need to say it more clearly.”
💬 “Can I tell you what’s been going on inside for me?”