This phrase invites collaboration and shared responsibility. It says: Your perspective matters. Let’s figure this out together.
It puts the two of you on the same team—working with each other, not against.

💬 “What do you think would help us both here? I want to find a way that works for both of us.”
💬 “Let’s figure out how we can both feel good about this. What do you think might help?”
💬 “I’m open to hearing your thoughts. What do you think we can do together?”
💬 “I want us both to feel heard. What would help both of us move forward here?”

🎯 This kind of question shifts the focus to shared solutions—and helps build connection, empathy, and trust.