In a marriage relationship, there are three key components to consider: the husband, the wife and the marriage itself. (This is different from the concept that there are 3 partners in a marriage: Hashem, husband and wife.)
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Put the relationship first if you want it to last. In other words, when you and your partner disagree on an issue, you need to decide what is more important, the relationship or being right and making the other person wrong.
Think: IS THIS GOOD FOR THE MARRIAGE?