Somehow, we imagine a life where everything is just ‘as it should be’. In that imaginary life, we know just what to do, we always make the right decision, we never say the wrong thing, we actually do what we should be doing. 

But, in the real world, we don’t and won’t get it right all the time. 

Constantly comparing this current ‘reality’ moment with that ‘imaginary’ moment in which everything is as it should be is so frustrating.

Because it is impossible to achieve.

You are human and will not get it right all the time. Stay in reality. You are doing the best you can with what you know now.

Give that same grace to everyone around you.  It isn’t fair to create an imaginary world of what they should be doing or saying or wearing or thinking all the time.