[The Power of Listening 2/3]

Some people don’t listen to their spouse because they think the details of their partner’s life aren’t all that relevant or interesting. They’d rather stick to the big picture or black-and-white thinking and don’t know how to handle the nuances and feelings—neither their own nor their partner’s.

When someone doesn’t want to be bothered to hear about their day or what’s on their mind, it sends a signal that they don’t value their thoughts or feelings. Over time, this can drive a wedge between them, leaving their partner feeling alone and unappreciated.

📌 If your spouse has told you that they feel like you are not listening, it’s time to take a hard look at yourself. Maybe you’ve been tuning them out without even realizing it. But here’s the deal: if you want a strong and loving relationship, you’ve got to show that you care. That means being there, listening up, and showing genuine interest in what they have to say.

When you make an effort to really listen, you’re not just keeping the peace; you’re opening up new avenues for connection and understanding. You might find out things about your spouse that surprise you and deepen your bond in ways you never imagined.