It may seem overwhelming and paralyzing to tackle the mess. It is just too big.
But the truth is moving and starting all over again is hard too. And if you don’t change your cleaning habits, you’ll have a mess in the new place too.
It is usually worth trying to reclaim your current home. You may need help and support to tackle it all. But it can be done. And you may even find some treasures that you thought were long lost.
Similarly, reclaim your marriage before it gets into a paralyzing mess. Don’t give up on your marriage just because it’s going through a rough patch. You may find that by putting in the effort to reclaim your marriage, you can rediscover the love and joy that brought you together in the first place.